The rate at which our life grows, at the same rate we shift from happy mode of life to sad mode of life. Unfortunately, we left our happy life somewhere in between, though we try to find the reason behind it we get nothing. When we were in childhood we search our happiness in toys, playing games with our friends. But when we grow up our desire not anchor to one place instead we run after so many things, which makes us to forget, how to be happy in life.
How to be Happy?
There are many ways to be happy in ones life but the ways which I have devised is unique. These ways I have tried in our life and got results. These are as follows:
- Love what you have : yes, if you have job with low salary don’t worry instead do your job diligently. Have no partner love your parents, have no parents love your friends, no friends love yourself. This attitude of yours make you always happy.
- Live the moment : means if you are partying then do party nothing else, with this you will enjoy the present moment which you have control at the fullest. Which will automatically give thousand reasons to be happy in life.
- Stop Overthinking : you should not think about the situation which is not in your control. Because overthinking will only drive happy life away from you. You will get nothing if you ignore present for future.
- Stay Connected : with your parents, family, friends and those things which give you motivation to live your life with happy face. If you have strong connections with your loved ones, you will be full of happiness in worst condition of life as well.
- Rationalize your desire : as we could not end our desire completely but we can rationalize them. For example rationalize our spending on materialistic things, try to live simple life without much pomp and show.
- Know yourself : when you connect yourself with your inner-self then you will know what your heart wants. In this way you will also know the real reason which may make you happy and sad in the life.
- Avoid over attachments : because with over attachments you will get sufferings only. As nothing is permanent in life, one day everything will leave you so to be happy stop yourself from sticking to one thing in life.
- Follow spiritualism : through reading holy books, visiting holy places, doing Yoga and many more ways you should try to connect yourself with God. With this you will see everything loaded with happiness around you.
Why to be Happy?
We love to see positive things around us for example rising sun, plants with flowers, trees with fruits and peace in society. The similar way happiness within you give positive vibes to you. If you are happy you will live your life longer and these free from disease like high blood pressure, stress and anxiety.
Happiness in life will enable you to achieve great milestones in your life. Productive ideas will come when you have peaceful mind this will happen only when you are happy with what you have in your life. Happiness will build good social bonding with you and the people nearby.
There is survey report which says, that the person with who are happy in their life have ability to focus on things more than those who are sad in their life. With focus comes many things such as confidence, self-belief and productive mind. Happy people attract others and build stronger connections. It makes you kinder, more understanding, and easier to be around.
Being happy gives you the strength to face difficulties with a positive mindset. It reminds you that even hard days will pass. Happiness lets you appreciate the little things, like a sunny day or a good meal. It turns ordinary moments into something special which make your life enjoyable.
Closing Lines
Happiness is a choice we can make every day. It doesn’t mean life will always be perfect, but it helps us appreciate the good and face the bad with courage. By focusing on what truly matters is love, kindness, and gratitude we can create a life full of joy and meaning. After all, happiness isn’t just a destination; it’s the journey itself. So being and becoming happy both is important as it will make you life paradise.
In the comment box do not forget to write what makes you happy and why so. With this I am leaving with you with this article which is loaded with happiness enjoy reading and sharing it among your friends.
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